Common signs include:
- Social difficulties (misreading social cues, preferring solitude, anxiety in groups)
- Repetitive behaviours or intense special interests
- Difficulty with transitions or changes
- Sensory sensitivities (loud sounds, bright lights, textures)
- Strengths in pattern recognition, memory, or specific subjects
Many autistic kids do fine in primary but struggle in secondary (more social complexity). Some are identified early, some late. Girls especially are often missed because they "mask" (hide) their autism.
If you suspect autism, that's worth exploring—not because anything's wrong with your child, but because understanding helps you support them better.